Proverbs 25:9 Meaning
Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another:
Context Explained
7For better it is that it be said unto thee, Come up hither; than that thou shouldest be put lower in the presence of the prince whom thine eyes have seen.
8Go not forth hastily to strive, lest thou know not what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame.
9Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another:
10Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.
11A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
Key Themes
Related Cross References
Matthew 18:15
Both verses encourage addressing issues directly with the person involved.
Proverbs 16:28
This verse also warns against gossip and encourages direct communication.
Galatians 6:1
Paul advises restoring someone gently, which aligns with debating directly.
Source: Proverbs 25:9