Struggling to Forgive After Infidelity
I’m a 28-year-old woman, and I’ve been grappling with the pain caused by finding out that my fiancé cheated on me. We had plans to get married and a future together, but now everything feels shattered. I feel angry, betrayed, and confused about what to do next. I never thought I would experience such a profound sense of loss in someone I loved so much. I know that forgiveness is an important aspect of healing, but I feel so stuck in my hurt. I want to pray for the ability to forgive him, not just for him but for my own peace of mind. Please pray that I can find the strength to let go of this pain and move forward.
Pastor's Response
Pastor Sarah Mitchell
Grief and Healing Ministry
Dear Sara, thank you for sharing your heart with me. The pain of infidelity is indeed one of the most heart-wrenching experiences one can endure, and it’s entirely understandable that you feel a storm of emotions right now. In Ephesians 4:32, we are reminded to 'be kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.' Forgiveness is a choice you make, and it doesn’t mean you condone what happened; it means you release the grip that this hurt has on your heart. I encourage you to take it one step at a time. Speak to God about your feelings and ask Him to heal your emotional wounds. In Philippians 4:6-7, we’re reminded not to be anxious but to present our requests to God, and His peace will guard our hearts and minds. Lean on Him during this time, and remember that it’s okay to grieve the loss of your relationship. May you find strength through His word and comfort in His presence as you work towards forgiveness. You are in my prayers, Sara.
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